Respondent 471

Does patriarchy exist?


How would you define patriarchy?

The ideological system that (along with capitalism, white supremacy and v closely with heteronormativity) oppresses and controls along gender lines

How has patriarchy hurt you?

Seriously fucked up my sexual interests, some body issues and inadequecy – obviously nothing compared to how it hurts all women

How have you hurt people in a way influenced by patriachy?

Pretty much every single interaction I had with a woman until I turned 19, and some after that. So much internalised awful shit that I will always be trying to unlearn.

How would you define masculinity?

The qualities that are traditionally associated with male-ness within a belief system that sees gender as binary. I’m really bored of supposedly progressive bros clinging like fuck to Beards and Meat.

Does misandry exist?


Anti male prejudice + power would be required on a large scale and this has never happened and can’t possibly happen under current white supremacist capitalist heteronormative patriarchy

Have you experienced gender and/or sex related prejudice?

Only in a way that has advantaged me

People assume I’m a lot more intelligent and knowledgable than I actually am because I’m a white seemingly-straight guy who likes some nerdy stuff

What best describes you?

An ally to feminism

Time was I would have said a feminist but I’ve learned that, as with everything, men should let women have that and just try to help educate men and also just listen and get out of the way