Respondent 130

Does patriarchy exist?

Yes

How would you define patriarchy?

A system of society, unconscious or otherwise, wherein men are encouraged to live up to stereotypes of what is considered manly, and to treat women as if they always fit to stereotypes. Demeaning to all genders, but especially oppressive to women.

How has patriarchy hurt you?

By giving me a false standard I thought I had to live to as a child/teenager and teaching me anything other than that was being inferior.

How have you hurt people in a way influenced by patriachy?

I try to avoid hurting people in general, no specific incidents come to mind but I was likely touting the same lines when younger as everyone else, and I know these days I’ll already have preconceptions of what a person is like based on appearance.

How would you define masculinity?

A flexible social construct based on traditional survival traits. Things that were important to early human males to be able to survive better eventually got absorbed into society. The specifics float about depending on what culture you’re in.

Does misandry exist?

Yes

Have you experienced gender and/or sex related prejudice?

Yes

What best describes you?

An egalitarian

Two notes: One I’m egalitarian even though I had to look it up to check definition. Two: Oh gods the internet has ruined the phrase “nice guy”